Feb 11, 2013

Patterns

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Yesterday, I decided to make a Chinese New Year Resolution -- to keep up with my InstaCC challenge and simultaneously, write about the topics which it asks me to take photos of.  InstaCC is an Instagram-linked app which provides everyday photo challenge for a year.

So of course, I am failing. This entry is actually for the photo challenge yesterday. Geez, I really have to work on my dedication for these everyday thingamajigs.


So... InstaCC February 10 challenge is about Patterns.
According to my handy Webster, pattern is described as a decorative arrangement; a model to be copied; instruction to be followed to make something; a regular way of acting or doing; or a predictable route, movement, etc.
For now, let's talk about pattern as a regular way of acting or doing -- 

Like all other things, patterns reflect the two sides of the coin. Positive ones need reinforcement while negative ones need to be altered in some way.


Different behaviors and habitual actions of people, especially negative ones, take their toll on relationships.
When someone is used to doing something, a pattern of behavior, such as bullying, is there a possibility for that person to change? Can their patterns still be altered into something positive? What does it take for the change to happen?
At the same time, for the one being taken for granted, when do they cut the ropes and put an end to the situation they are in?
In Science, we have learned that the only thing which can cause an object to undergo a certain change in movement or direction is FORCE.  
Personally, I do believe that force is needed to determine if change is indeed possible. Not physical force but emotional force. A drag or a thrust -- a drag in the form of pulling away to make the person realize your worth in the relationship or a thrust by putting your feet on the ground and demanding what you deserve. 

Which one would you choose? 
xx,
Corporate Junkie
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